About Us
Join us on the Journey
to a stronger you,
a closer relationship with your partner,
a secure parent-children bond,
a new relationship with yourself and others
Dennis and Kim believe that the ones we love most deserve all of us. Our partner, our children, our parents deserve the gift of our full presence.
We walked the journey to a secure bond as clients that gives us the freedom to be present with each other and our kids. Our relationship and our family is living proof of the effectiveness of EFT.
Dennis is currently only accepting new muiti-day EFT Intensives clients.
Dennis & Kim’s Story
Twenty years into our marriage—and more than ten years into Dennis’ career as a therapist—the relationship “band-aids” we’d relied on for years finally stopped holding us together. We found ourselves caught in the same painful cycle, unable to reach each other despite our best efforts. Then came the day when the only way forward we could find was separation.
“It was the worst day of my life,” Kim says.
The moment was devastating. It also became the turning point in our story. With the help of skilled EFT therapy, we began the hard but hopeful work of building trust and creating the kind of emotional safety we had always wanted but didn’t know how to discover. We learned to recognize the cycle that kept us stuck, understand the fears and longings beneath our reactions, and respond to each other in new ways. The transformation in our marriage—and our family—was life-changing.
Before EFT, we could laugh together one moment and find ourselves emotionally vacant the next. The tiniest look, sigh, or misunderstanding quickly launched painful cycles of distress and distance. Sometimes it took days—or even weeks—to feel close again. It often took days or weeks to recover.
Today we still disagree—every healthy couple does. The difference is that conflict no longer threatens our relationship. We know how to stay emotionally connected in difficult moments and how to repair quickly when we lose our footing. Our relationship is more stable, emotionally secure, passionate, and deeply connected than we ever imagined possible.
As our relationship changed, our family changed. Our children experienced parents who were more emotionally available for them, and more able to apologize and repair with them as well.
That transformation fuels our mission.
We believe the people we love most—our spouse/partner, children, and parents—deserve the gift of our full presence.
That conviction and our own transformation is why we created Infinity EFT Family Therapy – to help couples and families experience lasting, meaningful change in their relationships. And it fuels our passion to volunteer to teach Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in places like Mongolia and Uganda.
Like many people, we grew up learning how to protect ourselves from pain. Those survival strategies helped us navigate life and even succeed in our careers. But in our closest relationships, the same protective patterns created misunderstanding, distance, and conflict.
We don’t simply teach principles we’ve studied.
We share a path we’ve personally walked.
We know the pain of feeling alone in a relationship, and we know the hope that comes from finding your way back to one another.
If you find yourselves having the same arguments over and over, living with growing distance, wondering whether your relationship can change, or accepting this as good as it can be, we want you to know that more closeness and appreciation is possible.
We would be honored to walk alongside you as you move from conflict and isolation toward deeper connection, lasting emotional security, and a relationship where both of you can thrive.
Dennis & Kim Eames
Certified Emotionally Focused Couple Threrapists
Dennis Eames, MS
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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
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Certified Emotionally Focused Couple, Family, & Individual Therapist & Supervisor
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AAMFT & WA Approved Supervisor
Kim Eames, MA
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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
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Certified Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist
Dennis & Kim in the Media
Sexual & Emotional Cycles
We talked about:
•Sexual intimacy,
•Why you feel rejected in bed
•Understanding your sexual and emotional cycles”
Expressive Art & Play in EFFT
Our guest speaker is Dennis Eames, LMFT, Certified EFT Supervisor and Therapist located in Washington State. Today our conversation centers around the use of expressive arts and play in the EFT Tango with kids and teens.
Negative Dating Patterns
Can you fix your relationship conflicts with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)? Married couple and therapists Kim and Dennis Eames think so. They’ve applied these principles to their own relationship and seen the benefits firsthand.
What is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFiT) is an evidence-based approach that helps you create a new relationship with yourself.
EFT uncovers the past drama and trauma experiences that have kept you bound.
EFT provides a roadmap for facing painful experiences and creating new experienes with ourself and others.